Family Party

Sunday 27th December

It’s at Christmas time that extended families really come into their own. I was one of 4 children, hubby one of 3, my family have all gone on to have children of their own who now have babies. At the last count there were 25 close family members starting with my Mum. We make quite an effort to keep the family together as we have a gathering at least 4 times a year where most, if not all of the family will try to go. We go to each of our houses one of the times a year to give everyone a chance to host and more importantly the other 3 “time off” Today was hosted by my youngest sister Emma, who most importantly has the biggest indoor space, giving 25 humans and 3 dogs enough space so everyone is not on top of each other is a challenge at the best of time, but with the weather decidedly chilly no one is going outside!

Oldest sister had a eureka moment a few years ago, having struggled with the many cups of tea our family seem to drink, she suggested we club together and buy a 2nd hand Burco boiler from eBay, several years and many gatherings later, the Burco is a big hit! No more waiting for kettles to boil, no more making 10 cups of tea just because “you’re there so just do me one” each to their own, tea bags and milk are by the boiler and the water is permanently boiling. A must for every family gathering

I value days like today as it’s a time for everyone to catch up, find out what’s been going on and to see all the new babies who grow so very quickly. We have 4,under 5s at the moment and another one on the way…so far!

Boxing day

Saturday 26th December

Well that’s Christmas Day and Boxing Day over, two of the most eagerly anticipated, well prepared for days of the year, and blink and it’s over.

We try to be fairly traditional in how we spend the two days, now are ‘children’ our adults we see them rarely enough that Christmas is a time to just spend time with them. Christmas Day is spent opening pressies, preparing dinner, and good films. Boxing Day we like a good walk at the very least to try to walk off some of the excess food and drink. We manage to consume about a weeks worth of calories in just the few days.
We see the extended family the day after Boxing Day, now that all the cousins are married and have babies of their own, they all have their own parents and in-laws to satisfy so a completely separate day seemed the best way forward. Of course it also means you extend out what really is a very short festive season when it actually comes down to it. We are such a big family that are approach to presents is probably very similar to lots of families around, the secret Santa thing. Of course it’s a total lottery who you get to buy for, my nightmare is buying for the young adult males, what on earth do you get them that’s meaningful, interesting and useful! No one wants deodorant sets, socks, amusing tshirts or the like! Young adult females though, that’s a different matter, so easy!